Maybe she is you or someone you know, she has a place for everything and everything in its place, she is organized and well put together. When I was young that was not me, but after lost credit cards, keys and misplaced dollar bills I learned my lesson. Organization can save your life!
When I became a peace officer I had to know where each piece of survival equipment was without looking, in order to pull it out in an emergency. In the academy, cases of missing equipment were severely reprimanded; one cadet had to crab crawl across the entire football field to retrieve his lost backpack. There was a reason we had to stand up straight, our uniforms pressed and our shoes shined, it was to project the image of togetherness and not one of vulnerability. There is a great psychology behind it all that women can imitate. Opportunists look for vulnerability, the less you look vulnerable, the less likely you will be targeted. There are three areas where women can become more organized and therefore empowered.
Your purse, as my mom used to say, “pull yourself together!” Check out your purse, do things get easily lost in it? If so either re-organize it or get rid of it. You should be able to know where everything is without looking, especially your pepper spray or Taser, no attacker will wait for you to find it.
Your clothes, like a uniform should convey power and confidence, you can be stylish and safe without looking like a bag lady, the better you dress the more confident you look and the less likely you are to be a target. The added benefit of dressing well when you go out the door each day is that everyone, treats you better, even other women.
Lastly you're never fully dressed without good posture, it has an incredible ability to exude confidence inside and out, making you more attractive and appear as a force to be reckoned with.
Being organized, with our things, our appearance and in our bodies, creates an image of being pulled together. Being organized reduces stress, generates positive thoughts and can make you feel more energetic and yes, even happier.